why is it when i offer people adivce to people about relationships it works and things go well, but when i'm in a relationship i can't do things right? a friend asks me a favor, and i, not thinking say yes... even though it effects my girlfriend. normally thinking, i would say hey...let me ask my girlfriend about that...but no i just say yes. argh. stupid stupid stupid. and now is she mad at me and pretending she's not. i'm so self-conscience about doing things right because i don't want to screw this thing up. i tend to do that a lot. and that would be the worst thing to happen to me now. argh. i need sleep and stress management class in two weeks. bleah.